SO SATURDAY WAS "BIRTH" MOTHERS DAY, AND ADOPTIVE PARENTS ARE SUPPOSED TO RECOGNIZE THE "HERO" MOTHERS THAT DID THIS COURAGEOUS THING BY PUTTING THEIR CHILDREN UP FOR ADOPTION.
I WONDER IF WHO EVER CAME UP WITH THIS EVER REALIZED THAT, MAY JUST MAYBE SOME OF THEM ARE A LITTLE SELFISH AND IF AUTHORITIES DIDN'T STEP IN WOULD NOT HAVE DONE SO WILLINGLY. NOT BECAUSE THEY LOVE THEIR CHILD OR THINK ITS BEST FOR SAID CHILD TO STAY WITH THEM, BUT BECAUSE TO THEM THE CHILD IS SIMPLY SOMETHING THEY FEEL THEY OWN.
AS AN ADOPTIVE PARENT I AM GRATEFUL TO THE BIRTH MOTHER OF MY KIDS FOR BRINGING THEM INTO THIS WORLD. BUT HERO SHE IS FAR FROM IT. MY CHILD SUPPERS DAILY FOR HER MISTAKES, AND I CAN'T JUST ACT LIKE SHE S THIS GREAT PERSON FOR GIVING ME THIS GIFT. THE STATE GAVE ME THESES GIFTS, THEY PLACES THEM WITH ME TO LOVE AND NURTURE SOMETHING BIRTH MOM KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT, JUST BECAUSE SHE CARRIED THEM DOESN'T MEAN SHES MORE IMPORTANT TO THEIR EXISTENCE THEN I AM OR IMPORTANT AT ALL. SO FOR "BIRTH MOTHERS" DAY I THANK THE STATE, AND CPS CASE WORKERS FOR MY 2 GIFTS, FOR THEY ARE 2 GIFTS I WILL FOREVER CHERISH ALONG WITH MY BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN
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WOW! You brought tears to my eyes. Perfectly said. Exspecially for your situation!
AWW THANKS T,
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